Bereavement - The Loss of a Pet

The loss of a pet can be a devastating event. We may feel that a pet is a member of the family, and indeed the relationships between people and their pets may be very similar to the bond between a parent and a child – unconditional and unbreakable.

So if you experience the loss of a pet, grief and sorrow are natural and expected responses. Grief is a very personal, complicated matter. People respond with an enormous range of emotions and reactions. Some people believe that, while the loss of a pet might be painful, it’s “unhealthy” or an “over-reaction” to be so grief-stricken over an animal, especially if the feelings are prolonged. But this belief is mistaken. The reaction to the loss of a pet can be as devastating as the loss of a relative or friend.

So everyone should view the loss of a pet as a serious matter. Don’t be afraid to seek help or advice. Certainly, feel free to ask your veterinarian or our staff about how better to cope with the loss of a pet.

For more information about coping with the loss of a pet, go to the American Veterinary Medical Association discussion on this topic.

Bereavement Services

The staff at VSH understands that the death of a beloved pet can be sad, even traumatic event. To reduce the trauma and stress of this loss, we provide a quiet, private area for grieving. Staff are also ready to assist you as needed and provide a sympathetic presence.

We know many owners want to honor and preserve memories of their animal companions. The Circle of Life Crematorium, in Hemet, have several aftercare programs, including individual cremation and scattering ashes at sea. Ashes are placed in a cedar chest. For more information on their affordable services,
please contact Circle of Life Pet Crematorium (909-927-8170 or 800-791-0906).

San Diego Pet Memorial Park is a living memorial. They offer cremation, personalized burial services, memorials and viewings, pet loss books and literature, and pet loss support group counseling. For more information please contact San Diego Pet Memorial Park (858-909-0009) or visit their website www.sandiegopetmemorialpark.com.